Showing posts with label by Charles Moffat. Show all posts
Showing posts with label by Charles Moffat. Show all posts

5.1.15

Eroticism in Archery Photography and Art

By Charles Moffat - January 2015.

I find it fascinating how people like to combine erotic imagery with archery - usually with scantily clad or nude women, and rarely ever men in poses that look more like classic pin ups. Like the images below.

Pin up art is relatively tame by modern standards.

This piece is more about youthful athleticism then it is erotic.

This photograph is so tame she is even wearing fancy shoes.

Whereas this image looks like something out of "Mad Max".

Some images show a complete lack of archery knowledge.

A fancy dress and an expensive compound bow, it doesn't even match.

Again the lack of archery knowledge, this time for a fashion shoot.

In comparison these men look like that don't whether they are supposed to shoot the bow or stroke it. Penis envy?

Archery was in vogue back in the 1950s, and it was the rise of the male pin up model.

And last but not least this is a male model / bodybuilder from the 1950s/60s who often did nude poses of himself with archery equipment. He did so many nude archer poses it became known as his specialty.

23.9.13

Feverish Kisses

By Charles Moffat

I dreamt of her again last night.

When we first kisses it was sweet and tender, almost by accident.

But every kiss after that was more feverish than the last.

It had been so long since we had last seen each other.

We have both changed so much since then.

But the old flame still burns strong inside us.

I cannot change the way things are.

Nor can I change the way I feel about you.

The brief moments we are together, even in my dreams, make it all worthwhile.

Mayhaps you are dreaming of me too.

The same dream. The same feverish kisses.



12.6.13

Blossoms of Love

Blossoms of Love
 
Nay shall people say that your love doth not shine
For it shines like all the heavens after a glass of fine wine

Nay shall people say that your love does not blossom
For it has already bloomed and that is totally awesome

Nay shall people say that your eyes do wander
For your eyes have become blind to what others have to offer

Nay shall people say that your love is whimsical
For your love shows true character and has grown full circle

Nay shall people say that your love shall be nevermore
For your love shall grow thanks to the fruits of your labour

12.4.13

Dream Flirting

Hello!

I have just awoken from an interesting dream wherein I was flirting with my wife.

It was bizarre for multiple reasons.

#1. I am not married. I don't even know the woman in my dream.

#2. I have never flirted in a dream before. Clothes ripping sex, yes, but flirting? Nope!

Essentially I was visiting my wife at her office where she was working at hiring a new secretary. One of her secretary candidates was a real "go getter", willing to do almost anything to get the job - to the point that she sounded a bit insane.

After the secretaries all left my wife and I started talking about the different candidates, and then we started joking what-if I, her husband, were to become her male secretary.

"Oh but then I wouldn't be able to keep my hands off of you," my wife joked.

I think I recall blushing in the dream.

"And think of all the running around we'd have to do, having sex on desks, in stationary closets, in the break room."

And that was really the extent of the dream. My wife (who doesn't exist) and I joking about hypothetical sex at the office, with her husband playing the role of male secretary.

Now I haven't had any aspirations previously to be someone else's secretary. Never even crossed my mind. I probably wouldn't be bad at it, I do know how to answer the phone, make appointments, type really fast... but it hasn't really been a career aspiration.

And it still isn't.

I am more interested in the part of the dream where I am married to a sexually imaginative and flirtatious woman who finds me so highly desirable that she can't keep her hands off me.

On the eroticism scale this dream wasn't even arousing, but it was highly thought provoking when I woke up this morning. (And thus my sudden urge to write about it.)

That is what makes it so unusual. It wasn't a dream about sex, it was a dream about flirting about sex.

The talking about sex was more interesting than the act.

Which begs the question, if talking about sex can be that interesting (in the same way that erotic novels are interesting), why aren't people making films wherein they just talk about sex - without actually showing anything explicit.

That would be a mind-blowing experiment in erotic film making, I admit.

It would be taking the concept of "less is more" to the extreme and letting viewers imagine all the naughty bits. A bit like how lingerie is more provocative than no clothes at all, because it leaves everything to the imagination.

14.12.11

Unapologetic Love

By Charles Moffat, Canadian Poet.



Love and affection
doesn't have to be erotic.
The joining of two minds
is much more romantic.

People who love only sex
are really just pathetic.
The virtue of karma in relationships
is such that it makes justice poetic.

Finding genuine love and kindness
makes two lovers positively magnetic.
Lust is the mere byproduct of affection,
but true love is both prophetic and unapologetic.

ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR HEART.

12.11.11

Pleasure & Gentle Pain

By Charles Moffat, Canadian Poet.

I push you against the wall, ripping your shirt open
You push me back, your hands tugging at mine
Our kisses are fast, unrelenting and turn into bites

We hit the ground in a tumble of clothing
I struggle to get on top of you, to find my way inside you
I succeed, but you grab me and wrestle me to one side

I grab your breasts mercilessly, no time for caution
Everything we do is pleasurable, mixed with gentle pain
We thrash about like dueling animals, a melee of skin, nails and lips

Near the end our thrashing stops and we fall into a rhythm
But our grunts are no less animalistic
We sound like two savage beasts, panting from our exertions

At long last we collapse in defeat
Our bodies are mashed together, our muscles weak from fighting
At long last we are gentle and content, our kisses tender and loving







See Also
"a dream of unfettered roses" - A Selection of Poetry by Charles Moffat

21.8.11

Eroticism in Song Lyrics

By poet Charles Moffat.

Song lyrics often employ double entendres like 'Let Your Love Come Over Me'. One of the best examples I've ever heard is the song Dirty World by the Traveling Wilburys (Bob Dylan, George Harrison, Jeff Lynne, Roy Orbison and Tom Petty).

Dirty World

By the Traveling Wilburys

He love your sexy body, he loves your dirty mind
He loves when you hold him when you grab him from behind
Oh baby, you're such a pretty thing
I can't wait to introduce you to the other members of my gang

You don't need no wax job, you're smooth enough for me
If you need your oil changed I'll do it for you free
Oh baby, the pleasure would be all mine
If you let me drive your pickup truck and park it where the sun don't shine

Every time he touches you his hair stands up on end
His legs begin to quiver and his mind begins to bend
Oh baby, you're such a tasty treat
But I'm under doctors orders, Im afraid to over-eat

He love your sense of humor, your disposition too
There's absolutely nothing that he don't love about you
Oh baby, I'm on my hands and knees
Life would be so simple if I only had you to please

Oh baby, turn around and say goodbye
You go to the airport now and I'm going home to cry

(chorus)
He loves your...
Electric dumplings
Red bell peppers
Fuel injection
Service charge
Five-speed gearbox
Long endurance
Quest for junk food
Big refrigerator
Trembling wilbury
Marble earrings
Porky curtains
Power steering
Bottled water
Parts and services

(bridge)
Dirty world, a dirty world, it's a ...ing dirty world.

15.8.11

Eroticism in Fantasy

By fantasy author Charles Moffat.

When I say the word "fantasy" I don't mean daydreaming about hot sex in a Brazilian waterfalls... as nice as that sounds, what I actually am talking about is traditional "Sword and Sorcery" fantasy. ie. Conan the Barbarian by fantasy writer Robert E. Howard. (Or Harry Potter by J.K. Rowling, although really, there isn't much eroticism to speak of in Harry Potter so it doesn't really prove my point.)

Basically fantasy, as it mostly marketed towards men in the same way vampire books are marketed towards women, often employs eroticism either in the cover art and/or the contents of the book.

Star Wars is an excellent example. (My apologies to anyone who thinks Star Wars is science fiction... there is no science in Star Wars. Its a fantasy. Force = Magic, Light Sabres = Magic Swords, etc. They never even bother to explain scientific concepts of how the Death Star actually works, hyperspace, etc.)

But back to my original point: Eroticism in Star Wars. Think scantily clad dancing aliens and Princess Leia in her slave costume.

To be fair there is also the kissing scene between Harry and Hermiome in Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows (Part 1) which is carefully censored to make it erotic and yet not show any naughty bits.


So suffice to say fantasy writers (and fantasy movies) will frequently throw in something erotic to tantalize their audience. Some writers (ie. Stephen King, Guy Gavriel Kay, George R. R. Martin, etc) will even go into explicit detail and you might think you were reading something out of Penthouse Letters or some similar literary sex magazine.

I think however that adding such scenes to books really is more about the writer than the audience. The writer is living vicariously through their characters, imagining sexual fantasies that they desire to fulfill but knowing they never will.

ie. Robert E. Howard (the creator of Conan the Barbarian) is reputed to have had only girlfriend during his short career (he committed suicide in 1936 at the age of 30). The girl who was the object of his affections (Novalyne Price) didn't return his interest and broke up with him in 1934. One might argue that his lack of a serious love interest led to his depression and eventual suicide.

Howard's literary creations however, especially Conan, didn't just have women he had many women. But Conan only had one main love interest, a woman named "Belit", the heroine in the story "Queen of the Black Coast". In the story Howard even alludes to their relationship to having sadomasochistic undertones.

Unlike other Conan stories however where Conan essentially walks off into the sunset with the rescued damsel by his side instead Belit dies at the end of the story. Given a viking funeral no less.

It is interesting therefore to note that Howard wrote and published "Queen of the Black Coast" in 1934, shortly after being dumped by Novalyne Price. He also wrote the book "Almuric" shortly after in which he makes some interest comments about suicide (the book was later published posthumously in 1939).

But I digress!

Robert E. Howard, more so than other writers of his era, was deeply sexually repressed and was expressing himself via eroticism in his writing to make up for his lack of emotional connection to a woman in real life. His mother's coma in 1936 and the announcement that she would never awaken was the final nail in the coffin. He went out to his car and shot himself with a .380 Colt Automatic. He died 8 hours later, never regaining consciousness.

Speaking for myself I believe in a much more happy-go-lucky lifestyle. I firmly believe a person can always just start over anew. (Songs like "Eye of the Tiger" help for those who lack motivation.)

When I was living and working overseas I was missing my girlfriend back in Canada and wrote a series of short stories about an interracial relationship between a barbarian human named Brutus and an elf female named Avianna. Its true I was lonely and missing her, and thus expressed my loneliness through the stories which I emailed to my then girlfriend. But at least I never gave up hope for finding true love.

Years later the Brutus & Avianna stories are now available as an eBook on Lulu.com.


Some people might say sex and violence go well together. They're exciting. But I disagree. Violence only seems to work in fantasy pulp fiction when the hero saves the damsel and they live happily ever after. Morbid endings, however more realistic, are downers. (My apologies for the morbidness of this post!!!)

I firmly believe that love, sex and by extension eroticism are all reasons to live. Heroes in fantasy stories don't fight for gold or meaningless things. They fight for love, freedom, justice and ideals.

Take Don Juan as an example. He seduces women (usually virgins) and then fights their bigoted husbands / overprotective fathers. There are many variations on the Don Juan myth, but my personal favourite is the film version "Don Juan Demarco"... a modern fantasy with swordfighting and a happy ending.

5.5.11

The Sensual Eroticism of the Song of Solomon

By Charles Moffat - May 2011.

If you've ever read "The Song of Solomon" you might have asked 'What is this type of writing doing in the Bible?' Most people would not expect to find such explicit, yet highly poetic, descriptions of a sexuality and lovemaking in the Holy Bible.



Depending on whom you talk to "The Song of Solomon" is literary smut but it is also one of the greatest examples of historical erotica. As a book in the Bible it celebrates sexuality as the most beautiful act a husband and wife can do together, a celebration of "God's Creation". In that line of thinking, eroticism itself (if done with poetic finesse and imagination) can be seen as a celebration of "God's Creation".

"Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine" says the female poet. Later she says "bundle of myrrh is my well-beloved unto me; he shall lie all night betwixt my breasts."

If you read between the lines of The Song of Solomon you will notice that in Chapters 2 to 3, oral sex appears to be described: "the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste."

The male poet, Solomon, says, "Thy two breasts are like two young roes that are twins, which feed among the lilies.... Thou has ravished my heart, my sister, my spouse; thou has ravished my heart with one of thine eyes, with one chain of thy neck.... Thy lips, O my spouse, drop as the honeycomb: honey and milk are under thy tongue."

Solomon describes his beloved as "a garden", presumably a reference to her bushy pubic hair and her fruit-like breasts.

His female lover writes "Awake, O north wind; and come, thou south; blow upon my garden, that the spices thereof may flow out. Let my beloved come into his garden, and eat its pleasant fruits."

Its pretty obvious then they're meant to enjoy oral sex.

These poetic and metaphorical descriptions of intimacy lead us back to the question as to why this type of writing is in the Bible? The answer is because mankind is supposed to be "fruitful and multiply", because marriage isn't just a symbol before 'God', because marriage is also a sanctuary for lovemaking, and this lovemaking is both a celebration of the human body, and an act for creating children.

It is presumable that 'God' would wish children to be born from lovemaking, and not from rape or rampant fornication.

At the time the Holy Bible was put together it was previously just a collection of stories. Evidently the people deciding which chapters should go in it had a lengthy discussion about how prudish a book they were making. They wanted to off-set some of the more anti-sex ideas in the book with a chapter that celebrated sex. This was a conscious decision to endorse lovemaking and eroticism.

It also says something about the nature of sex of lovemaking. The moment of ecstasy is a moment wherein the whole body, the whole mind, is caught in rapture. It is perhaps no surprise therefore that many people in the moment of orgasm cry out "OH GOD!"

We should note that at the time the Song of Solomon they lived in a fairly liberal culture where both common peasants and the wealthy ran amok having sex with one another. True, they knew the dangers of sexuality, like pregnancy and the STDs of the time, but it was not a 'wholly anti-sexual culture'. Rather it was surprisingly knowledgeable about what causes babies to be born and had learned methods of effective contraception (likely finishing with oral sex or pulling out at the opportune moment).

At such a time we know that prostitution was a constant and that it was also vitally important that sexually transmitted diseases be kept to a minimum which may explain the many warnings in Proverbs and other Biblical passages against fornicating with "the strange woman" and "the harlot".



But while fornication was frowned upon, lovemaking within the sanctity of marriage was actually encouraged because it increases the chances of faithfulness and reduces adultery (which leads to other problems).

Eroticism therefore was not feared by ancient cultures but celebrated for increasing fertility and faithfulness between lovers. The Song of Solomon however is not about fertility of faithfulness however. It is a celebration of lovemaking's ability to give pleasure and to enrich the lives of those we love. It was created by and for people who savored the pleasures of the flesh and was meant to be enjoyed within marriage.

The Song of Solomon can also be appreciated as a larger metaphor. Some people see it as symbolizing the relationship of God to Israel, of Jesus Christ to the Christian Church, etc.

In the end The Song of Solomon is enduring testimony to the pleasures of lovemaking. While it is said that poets make good lovers, we can only assume Solomon was a great one.

(This essay is from the website The Song of Solomon and is courtesy of The Religion eZine, an online magazine which discusses religion, philosophy, atheism and mythology.)

23.6.10

Lust and Failed Trysts

Poetry by Charles Moffat - June 2010.

I slide my hand down your back and cup one of your buttocks, pressing you closer to me.

Our hips grind together rhythmically, drawn together by wild lust and rampant desire.

Your lips are like water to a man traveling the desert sands, never quite quenching my thirst.

Amidst all these wild emotions, the letting go of barriers inside my heart I question:

Are you the one? Will this lead to love or just another failed tryst?






See Also
"a dream of unfettered roses" - A Selection of Poetry by Charles Moffat

18.2.10

When you touch me

Poetry by Charles Moffat - February 2010.

When you touch me
I feel the temperature change
When I touch you
I feel your heart quicken

When we are together
We abandon loneliness and doubt
We forget time and lose ourselves in sensual flesh

When we aren't together
Our minds wander to each other
We lose ourselves in lustful daydreams

When we come together again
Our joy overflows as we surrender to pleasure
Our flesh joined as we become one

Our time together is fleeting
But in those moments we find passion and meaning
We are more our true selves
We release our energies into each other





See Also
"a dream of unfettered roses" - A Selection of Poetry by Charles Moffat

4.11.08

The Role of Kama Sutra in a Relationship

By Charles Moffat - 2008.

In our youth the schooling system tries to explain how sex works, the anatomy of the body and the importance of using protection such as condoms/the Pill. But there is no time scheduled to discuss the actual mechanisms of sex, foreplay, positions or even matters of romance.

So instead we get our information from "more experienced" friends, from the mass media, from books, movies, etc. and eventually, without really discussing it in depth we develop a methodology with regards to how to be romantic, how to flirt, how to conduct foreplay and even what to do during sex.

Now here's a personal pet peeve. Ever watched a movie and the guy drives his date up to a makeout place above the city where they can view the city (and maybe the stars)? Its a 1950s stereotype of what people thought was romantic. And its completely lame. It lacks creativity and tells your date that you have no imagination whatsoever.

So if that is what the guy thinks is romantic, what does he think is good foreplay or good sex? The missionary position? Again, no imagination.

This is where Kama Sutra comes in... either Vatsayayana's Kama Sutra or a more modern version like the Penthouse video. Or you could learn a thing or two just from looking at Kama Sutra art.

Vatsayayana's Kama Sutra doesn't just focus on sex, its also a complete guide to attracting a mate, courtship, betrothal, marriage, spicing up your marriage, cheating/affairs and how to be romantic. For example there's even a section on how to plant a garden designed to entice your senses and spark your sense of romance.

The Indian tradition believes that every aspect of human life is governed by one or more of the following motives:

1). Dharma: Virtuous living.
2). Artha: Material prosperity.
3). Kama: Gratification of the senses.
4). Moksha: Liberation.

So Kama Sutra isn't just about relationships, its about enjoying yourself through your senses. You can't learn that in school.

31.10.08

Eroticism in Advertising

By Charles Moffat - 2008.

We all know sex sells, but how far will people go to sell a product? In some cases its more like pornography and I will give you an example.

When I was 18 years old I worked in a welding shop building grain buggies and snowblowers and as typical of such a blue collar workplace the men working there had pinups posted on the walls. One of the pinups was of a rather busty blonde of Playboy proportions, full frontal nude, holding a pair of ball bearings. The caption said "If you think your balls are hard, try our cast-iron ball bearings."

The photo was evidently pornographic and wouldn't be acceptable in a trade magazine and if there were women working in the welding shop in question they likely would have found the image offensive. The point I am making is that there is degrees of acceptability.

Erotica is more acceptable than porn, and thus in advertising erotica is more likely to be used. In the examples on this page I've used shoe polish ads from the 1950s/60s.

The thing is eroticism can be used to promote practically anything, including religion. There are quite a few erotic nudes in the history of Christian Art.

Examples:

Albrecht Durer - Adam and Eve - 1507
Cima de Condegliano - St. Helena - 1495
Gustave Moreau - Salome - 1876
Karl Brulloff - Bathsheba - 1832
Rubens - Samson and Delilah - 1609
Guido Reni - Susanna and the Elders - 1620-25

Eroticism can also be found in war propaganda,
fantasy and science fiction, romance novels and a variety of other venues. These are typical, but its the unusual choices that spark controversy. The fashion industry, especially brand names, likes to use eroticism in their advertising to shock the public like the Dolce & Gabbana ad below.



Evidently some companies will go very far to get your attention. If the Catholic Church ever starts making advertising campaigns using racy images in hopes of boosting their popularity we will have come full circle.